What is love, What is life?

Appreciate when love is still around

by Phan Su Ming


As time passes by, we tend to take loads and loads of things for granted.
Especially in love. Why?
It may be due to the fact that we are being taken care of and being loved,
being pampered...and everything lovely.

Just like the movie, Moulin Rouge...once there is
TRUTH - from words spoken
BEAUTY - from within
FREEDOM - being able to choose to be together
then, comes LOVE which is priceless and unconditional.

Love always decide our future as it mentally affects us directly or indirectly more than anything else
- especially girls ( being the more emotional being ).

A friend once told me that though we may never expect our loved one to treat us like how we wanted to,
yet, he/she may have done so in their own ways.
Arguments always start from misunderstanding because of differences in personality and character.
And this difference is what brings one party and another together so that we would be able to know,
learn and understand one another.

Never complain why one party behaves in a certain manner when you never do so,
cos you yourself may have triggered some undesired talk or an annoying behaviour that the other party feels irritated.

Every person has its pros and cons in leading his/her life.
We should instead look at the better perspective of one and appreciate it cos,
you may lose out on that point.

One shouldn't compare in a relationship.
If one still insists, then look at the differences and appreciate that he/she is still with you.
I'm sure girls hurt more than the men, as when she would like to disagree, the man may not like it.
and that she couldn't voice up her dislike, cos the man would think that she's trying to trigger a havoc.

Girls have the desire to remember the past.
Cos, as I said earlier, girls are the more emotional party and they would always take everything seriously
(affecting their mental well-being).
That's why they hurt so much...and a hurt to them is like thousands of nails pricking into their hearts.
Every single hurt(though uncountable)allows thousands of undesired pain attacking them.
Therefore, it may not be easy for a girl to forget what they had been through.
Guys may not feel the same as they are...mm...the type - "take it or leave it"
Think of the good points he/she had done for you which in your past, was never given or pampered to.

So, you guys out there...never hurt your gf. Instead, learn to understand by talking to them.
Appreciate them before it's too late.

Just note that if your heart doesn't belong to the one you love at the moment, let go.
As for guys, they want to own everything or nothing at all- it's their nature and their ego.

Follow your feelings. If one feels like doing something which hasn't been done, go ahead with it.
or, you'll regret in the future for not even attempting.

Not until I talked to a very close friend whom I respect fully, only then,
I knew what I was supposed to do , I finally followed what my heart desires and I never regretted doing so...
cos I never knew I was being cherished all these while I'm not around for and I know how important my life is to these people.

I will never regret what I had done, not anymore. Cos I finally opened my heart and let it do the talking.

Remember...
THE BEST HAPPINESS IS TO LOVE AND BEING LOVED IN RETURN...

If I could make one wish...I would wish for girls to be really understanding and not behave childishly
and for the guys to let go their EGO.
Both parties have to do their part for love to bloom.

Happiness is there..it's just a matter of how you want to see and choose it.



Appreciate when love is still around~

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